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January 2006
 
 
DoWhat!?
Support & Inspiration for Taking the Road Less Traveled

Hello!
Welcome to the inaugural issue of Do What!? a newsletter dedicated to providing support and inspiration to those who take the road less traveled.

If you are receiving this first issue, you are among the people I most enjoy and respect on earth. As such I wanted to share with you my thoughts about my own wonderful, quirky journey into the world of coaching, and help inspire you to step boldly forward on your own less traveled road.

I hope you will enjoy my messages and want to hear more. If you wish to continue receiving DoWhat!? please join my mailing list. (To subscribe click here.) Otherwise you will not receive this newsletter again.

In the meantime, keep making those challenging decisions. May these newsletters give you creative ideas and inspiration along the way!


Warmly,
Laura

Fresh Perspectives
Time to Read: 4 minutes
It’s January again! That time for resolutions and amped-up willpower. It may sound “un-coach-like” but I gave up on new years resolutions because I can never keep them. I want to enjoy the sense of possibility that comes in the early months of the year not feel guilt for once again breaking my promise to exercise or eat better!

So let’s focus on the opportunities that await us in 2006. What big projects do you have in mind? Today’s newsletter explores the realm of fresh perspectives, and will give you some new ideas and approaches to help you move into the new year full of wonderful new possibilities.

In this issue:

  • Child's Play
  • Exercise: Shifting Perspectives
  • Exercise: Inspiration on the Newsstand
  • Bonus Resource: Invention at Play

Child's Play
Watching my daughter the other night, I was amused to see her playing “computer” with my alarm clock. She was teaching her dolly to type on the alarm buttons and showing her the screen – a big red LCD with the time. When I asked her what she was doing she replied, “Working.” (Yikes!)

Her play got me thinking. I would never have thought that the alarm looked like a computer. My adult eyes categorize those familiar things – alarm clock, laundry basket, shoe – and I see what I expect. But with less experience of the world, my two year old sees computers and boats and bowls. What are we missing by relying on our adult “knowledge” of the world?

In the ‘70s computer scientists at Xerox PARC, one of the world’s foremost research and development facilities, involved children in the design of computer systems. An R&D lab doesn’t seem like the place for kids, but observing how children interacted with computers inspired the researches to design the overlapping windows and graphical interface we take for granted on today’s PCs. Talk about the power of fresh perspectives!

Adding a little child’s play to your thought processes may offer you the fresh perspectives you need to inspire your life or projects. Following are a few exercises that will help you imagine the possibilities. Enjoy!

Shifting Perspectives
Don't Forget the Ridiculous!
This exercise requires some physical movement and mental attention to the feelings in your body to help you shift your thinking. Whatever you do, don’t forget the ridiculous!

  • Stand in the center of the room, breath deeply a few times, and think about your dilemma or a decision you’d like to make.
  • How do you feel about this right now? Are you feeling stuck? Anxious? If this feeling you are having were a place, what would it be? A hectic train station, for instance, with too many different tracks? Or a dry, hot, desert with no one else around? What is your unique place? Label this perspective by the place you have identified.
  • Now, turn 90 degrees to the right and take in the first thing that catches your eye. Imagine what this thing you’ve noticed would tell you about your decision. For example, seeing a telephone on the wall might make you think that the only way through your “wall of indecision” is to communicate your intentions fully. How does that perspective feel? What kind of place is this?
  • Turn 90 degrees again, repeating the exercise. You will do this two more times. At the end, you will have your starting perspective and three fresh views.
  • Finally, when you are back to the starting position, close your eyes and think of the most RIDICULOUS thing you possibly can. It might be anything – an ice cream cone, your dog, a trumpet – any idea that comes immediately to mind will work. Ask yourself what that crazy thing would tell you about your decision, how it makes you feel and what kind of place it is.
Now you’re armed with five different perspectives. Which felt the best to you? Which place felt the most comfortable? Choose the perspective you like best (or combinations) to help you move forward on your decision.

Inspiration on the Newsstand
This next exercise comes courtesy of Daniel Pink’s book A Whole New Mind. (Speaking of fresh perspectives, this book is a good one for a new look at our socio-economic future!)

Newsstand Roundup

  • To freshen your thinking or work out a problem visit the largest newsstand you can find.
  • Spend 20 minutes browsing the selections then choose 10 publications you have never read and probably never would nevere buy. The key is to purchase magazines you have never noticed before!
  • Spend time looking through the magazines to get an idea of what each magazine is about and what is important to its readers.
  • Now look for connections to your own work and life.

Mr. Pink says that doing this exercise helped him come up with a better way to make his business cards (from Cake Decorating) and get an idea for a newsletter (from an article in Hair for You.) See what new ideas pop up for you!

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BONUS RESOURCE

Intrigued by the idea of play leading to invention? You’ll love the Smithsonian’s project dedicated to just that: Invention at Play

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